TWO REASON WHY COUPLES FIGHT

The first reason why couples fight? A perceived threat or the other perception that the partner is being hostile, critical, blaming, or controlling.

The second reason involves "perceived neglect," or the perception that the other partner is not contributing to the relationship or demonstrating an ideal level of commitment.

When people have underlying concerns about a perceived threat or perceived neglect, they may be likely to engage in reflexive, emotionally charged behavior that can initially serve to escalate the conflict. This means that perceived threat and neglect should correlate with how couples communicate during conflict. Each type of concern is associated with a specific and distinct set of emotions and perceptions. To resolve the perceived neglect conflict, couples rely on apologies and forgiveness. And for perceived threat conflicts, they are more interested in gaining respect and appreciation, as well as a reduction in aggression. So the couples! why do you fight, readers who are not couple yet, care for these instructions.

BECOMING A FASHION DESIGNER

Becoming a fashion designer, has always been my biggest dream. I use to make my own clothing. I can put anything together and make it look really good. I love to shop an put together my own style. And I always wanted to give someone a makeover. When I was little, I mean like 3, I would sit around and draw girls all the time. Then I advanced to clothes. In 6th grade my parent bought a sewing machine for me and I used it to make things all the time. Then it kind of left my life as I entered high school. But recently I discovered how clothes have always been an important part of my life (not in a stuck-up way) but like as symbols, and how much I enjoy shopping, and doing crafty things!! I’m not planning on being a big time designer right now, but I want to get back into the habit of being crafty and making my own stuff again! 

My sketches

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO OWN?

There a many special things that I’d like to own - the answer to this question depends about how serious we are. If we are really serious I’d definitely wish for a good health. But if we aren’t that serious I’d like to have an Ipod.

BORED

I AM BORED! 

WHAT TO DO WHEN BORED!

If " I am bored " is the statement and " What to do when bored " is the question, in other words you have time to kill, below is a short fun (or stupid) list of things to do today! Come have a grin, have some fun and banish boredom forever! We do have a SERIOUS " What to do when bored " list! Below are more " BORED " links to some of our other pages this page is just for laughs or perhaps just to loosen you up a little, to help you with the transition from S-E-R-I-O-U-S to FUN!! Read it whenever you feel miserable, bored or tense! Here goes, just before you reach that fatal point of being bored to death! Boredom is after all only a lack of creativity!

1. Ask someone for advice you don't need
2. Listen to a painting
3. Take your sofa for a walk
4. Shave a shrub
5. Hold a debate. Take both sides
6. Interview a cloud
7. Ask for advice at the chemist ... disagree
8. Put legwarmers on the furniture
9. Mug a stop sign
10. Clean and polish your belly button
11. Water the dog ... see if he grows
12. Mow your carpet
13. Rake your carpet (to clean up clippings from mowing)
14. Dial-A-Therapist and argue
15. Dial-A-Prayer for forgiveness for above
16. Rent a dog to chase your car
17. Let him catch it
18. Sue the owner of above
19. Confess to a crime you didn't commit
20. Play solitaire - with your toes

Come, forget about S-E-R-I-O-U-S, you did at least grin didn't you? Add to your list, make a new list, get creative, see how far your mind can lose you or you it, take your imagination to another level for a change - expand or shrink a little. This is therapeutic - no costs involved to see a Therapist! It's better than "I am bored"! Make a list, send it to a friend, stick it on a wall, send it to me or at least let me know if you are still bored after you have made your list! 

 " WHAT TO DO WHEN BORED? "

There are thousands of people who are a bit bored out there! Cool, Fun Loving, Creative people like YOU can help - tell me what you and your family and friends do to brighten up your days! Think back - the most fun you've ever had, what you call yourself instead of " bored ", the greatest thing you've ever created, your next top priority " must do before I die " quest, past & present hobbies or simply what made you laugh for hours or kept you entertained for days! Here's your chance to MAKE someone's day with some new fresh " What to do when bored " ideas!

I FEEL THE PAIN

Since I was a teen, I have had to endure doubling-over, must-die-now pain during my menstrual cycle. When I was in High School, my doctor gave me a prescription.  Those giant blue pills were a SAVIOR!  I took them for YEARS. Now for some reason, I am having my periods about every 18 days.  It sucks. Big-time. The pain has worsened, and it is more frequent, so I can't even plan anything around it.  I went to my doctor, had a gazillion tests, and there is nothing showing that would give reason for what I am going through.

VICTORIA'S SECRET FASHION SHOW 2010

MEGAN FOX

Megan Fox has an ectomorph body and this basically means that she has a very fast metabolism. She simply burns calories much faster than the average person does. I’m sure you’ve seen celebrities like Jessica Simpson, who are thin but must work very hard to remain that way. This isn’t the case with Megan Fox and won’t be until she reaches her 30’s. The age when most ectomorphs’ metabolisms begin to slow down. Megan Fox isn’t actually a big eater, her method of gaining weight when instructed too by a movie director was to eat a slice of cake before going to bed. Her favorite food is mashed potatoes, she loves sweet juices, and sugary iced teas, eats fast food once in awhile and does an insane amount of crunches. Other than that there isn’t a special Megan Fox diet or workout. She’s also extremely active. The past year she was basically running hard on the set of her new movies the Revenge of the Fallen and Jennifer’s Body. Keep in mind Michael Bay (director – transformers) is known for pushing his actors to the limit. I mean do the math she eats 2000 calories a day but burns off more than that. She actually struggles to keep weight on. Bottom line: Megan Fox doesn’t go out of her way to look the way she does, she doesn’t have a secret workout or diet. She’ll need ‘em in 10 years time though. So save your money and don’t fall for Megan Fox diet fads.

GOSSIP GIRL PART II

My friend is a gossip. Should I dump her? Dilemmas!

 

The longer I live, the more types of people I met. Various types. This time I want to talk about friend, bad damn asshole girl friends! There are many types of friends. But how many people in this world who do understand the true meaning of friends? If you ask me, I thins it might be not even reach until 20% of people out there who understand the meaning of true friends! Probably more than 80% of people out there who have yet to understand. Sometimes, i do ask myself. Why should we be friends? The answer is quite simple, because we need each others. But is really we need each other or use each others? What do you thinks? Enough! I was amused to hear my friend saying that " You is the best, I love you ", but in the reality is when she turning back she will say " You is bullshit ". Like or not, that was the reality happen to me just now!

 

NAME MEANS

K = You like to try new things. 

A = You can be very quiet when you have something on your mind.

R = You are a social butterfly.

E = You are a very exciting person. 

E = You are a very exciting person. 

N = You like to work, but you always want a break. 

A = You can be very quiet when you have something on your mind.

A = You can be very quiet when you have something on your mind.

L = Love is something you deeply believe in.

E = You are a very exciting person.

E = You are a very exciting person. 

Y = You cause a lot of trouble.

A = You can be very quiet when you have something on your mind.

I WANT YOU HUG ME!